I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • People

    People

    A lesson I’ve learned recently is that people show you who they are — believe them the first time. I used to make excuses for inconsistent behavior. Now I observe…

  • Romance

    Romance

    One lesson I learned that changed my perspective is that some people are not compatible as lovers. No matter how attracted they are to each other, many differences of ideas…

  • Detours

    Detours

    A perspective shift: rejection is redirection. After being turned down for a big opportunity, I ended up in a much better situation I never would have pursued otherwise. I’m starting…

  • Rest

    Rest

    One lesson I’ve learned recently is I learned that rest is productive. For the longest time I felt guilty for slowing down. Now I see that proper rest actually makes…

  • Boundary

    I learned that setting boundaries isn’t selfish — it’s necessary. Saying “no” to things that don’t align with my values has given me so much more energy for the things…

  • Self-concious

    Self-concious

    This year I realized most people aren’t thinking about me as much as I feared. I used to over-edit everything I said or posted. Understanding that everyone is the main…

  • Patience

    Patience

    What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective? A lot of people have horrible trauma. This shifted my perspective in that I am now more patient and understanding.…

  • Temperature

    I take a hot shower or bath one hour before bed, then cool down in a dark room. The temperature drop signals my body it’s sleep time. How do you…

  • Time

    Time

    I started exercising in the morning instead of the evening. Evening workouts kept me wired. Morning movement + sunlight exposure = deeper sleep at night. When I was a junior…

  • Indica

    One way I improve my sleep is by inhaling an adequate amount of Indica weed before I turn off my lights. Weed is split into two main types: Indica and…