I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Eye Contact

    I used to skip eye contact in conversations when I felt insecure. Now I meet people’s eyes with my gaze — not to prove confidence, but to share presence.

  • Unwind

    I used to always tried to skip stretching before bed. Now, it’s how I unwind after the day.

  • Silence

    I used to skip morning silence. I filled it with noise, music, distraction. But silence has become my best teacher.

  • Awareness

    I skipped checking my posture at my desk. Then I realized how much of my stress I carry in my shoulders. Small awareness, big difference.

  • Hydration

    I always skipped drinking water during the day. I’d go hours without it. Now, hydration feels like permission to exist without depletion.

  • Closet

    I skipped organizing my closet. But one rainy day, I did it anyway — and realized I wasn’t just decluttering clothes. I was making room for a new version of…

  • Medicine

    I used to skip saying “I’m proud of you” to myself. I thought it sounded silly. Now, it feels like medicine.

  • Fear

    I skipped updating my resume for years. I told myself I wasn’t ready for more. Turns out, fear disguises itself as procrastination.

  • Journaling

    I always skipped journaling about the hard days. I didn’t want to immortalize pain in marks. But writing it down helped me release it.

  • Breathes

    I used to skip resting on weekends. I thought productivity was purpose. Now I understand: rest is how purpose breathes.