I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Inward

    I used to skip checking in with myself. I’d ask everyone else how they were doing, except me. Learning to turn inward changed everything.

  • Laundry

    I used to skip laundry day. Then one afternoon, I folded everything slowly, and it felt like rebuilding my life one clean shirt at a time.

  • Softness

    I always tried to skip the mirror when I felt unworthy. But the reflection didn’t judge me — I did. Learning to meet my own gaze with softness has been…

  • “Heart”

    I skipped skincare because I was tired. But the moment I started again, I remembered: caring for your body is often the gateway to caring for your heart.

  • Needed

    I used to skip answering texts from friends when I was low. I thought isolation would protect me. It didn’t. Connection was what I actually needed.

  • Purpose

    I always tried to skip the reflection part of my goals. I’d set them, chase them, and forget to ask why. But purpose makes achievement mean something.

  • Pouring

    I used to skip making coffee at home. I thought it was mundane. Now it’s one of my favorite rituals — a reminder that warmth can start with something as…

  • Space

    I always skipped stretching in the morning. Until one day, I realized it wasn’t just my body that was stiff — it was my spirit. Both needed space to move…

  • Mail

    I used to skip checking my mail for weeks. I didn’t want to face the to-do list inside. Now, I see that avoidance just grows heavier with silence.

  • Fatigued

    I skipped taking breaks during the day. I thought exhaustion meant I was trying hard enough. It didn’t. It meant I was becoming fatigued.