I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Small Wins

    I always tried to skip making my bed. Then one day, after a rough week, I did it anyway — and that tiny act made me feel capable again. Some…

  • I used to skip breakfast every morning. I thought saving time meant being productive. Then I realized I was running on fumes — not fuel. Now, that first bite of…

  • Rest. I skip it because I think productivity equals worth—but I’m learning it doesn’t.

  • Much

    Backing up my files. I trust the cloud a little too much.

  • Gratitude

    Journaling gratitude daily. It feels cheesy sometimes—but works every time I actually do it.

  • Trash

    Taking out the trash. I’ll wait until it becomes a sculpture.

  • Stretching in the morning. I’m too busy being horizontal.

  • Tidy

    Tidying the bathroom. Out of sight, out of mind—until it isn’t.

  • Breakfast

    Eating breakfast. Coffee feels faster, and I convince myself it counts.

  • Betrayal

    Organizing my calendar. I rely on memory until it betrays me.