I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Lists

    I tried to skip gratitude lists. They felt cliché. Until one night, when life felt heavy, I wrote three things I was thankful for — and felt a spark of…

  • Mirror

    I used to skip the mirror. I didn’t like who I saw. Healing began when I forced myself to look — not for flaws, but for resilience.

  • Vanity Or Ritual?

    I always skipped skincare. I thought it was vanity. Then I realized it was ritual — a way of saying, “I’m worth a few extra minutes.”

  • Laundry

    I used to skip laundry until the pile overwhelmed me. Now, I am sure to do my wash as soon as my hamper is full. It was proof I could…

  • Gratitude

    I used to skip my cool-down after workouts. I thought I was saving energy. Now I see that slowing down is how I show gratitude to the body that carried…

  • Water

    I’d always skip drinking water. Silly, right? But I didn’t realize how much I was teaching myself to ignore my needs in tiny, quiet ways.

  • Peace

    I tried to skip reflection, thinking I didn’t have time. Then I realized I had time for scrolling, worrying, and overthinking — just not peace.

  • Movement

    I’d always skip taking walks after dinner. I thought rest meant sitting still. Turns out, movement is sometimes the gentlest kind of rest there is.

  • Journal

    I skipped journaling because I didn’t want to face my thoughts. When I finally wrote them down, I realized clarity doesn’t come from thinking — it comes from releasing.

  • Postponed

    I used to skip morning stretches. I’d say, “I’ll do it later.” But later never came. My body taught me the truth: care postponed is still care denied.