I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Quiet

    I found healing in the quiet. I used to think progress was loud and triumphant, but it’s actually slow and silent

  • Younger Self

    I found my younger self in a box of memories — her hope, her curiosity, her wild belief in possibility. I’m trying to live like her again.

  • Scar

    I found an old scar I used to hide and realized it looked like strength. I decided to keep showing it.

  • Patience

    I found patience through pain. It wasn’t a gift — it was something I had to build, one tear at a time.

  • Pretty

    I found grace for myself when I realized survival isn’t always pretty.

  • Honor

    I found laughter again after grief. It felt strange at first — like betraying what I lost. But it was really a way of honoring it.

  • Survives

    I found a seashell during a stormy walk on the beach. It reminded me that beauty often survives chaos.

  • Her

    I found a letter I wrote to my future self years ago. I didn’t realize I’d become her.

  • Boundaries

    I found my boundaries after being pushed too far. I’ve kept them, even when people didn’t like them. Especially then.

  • Joy

    I found joy again, soft and cautious. It didn’t burst in — it tiptoed back into my life.