I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Aware

    My first computer taught me awareness of others. Someone was always waiting.

  • Silence

    The computer lived in a shared room with shared rules. Silence felt expected.

  • Fairness

    I learned timing from my first computer. Access depended on mood and fairness.

  • Shared Lives

    The family computer held many lives at once. My turn never felt fully mine.

  • Permission

    My first computer experience involved asking first. Permission mattered more than skill.

  • Space Pinball

    The computer sat where everyone could see it. Nothing I did on it felt private, but I would just play Space Pinball for hours. I was not old enough to…

  • Trust

    My first computer belonged to the household, not to me. Using it felt like borrowing trust.

  • Blocky

    My first computer sat on a heavy desk and hummed like it carried secrets. I learned patience from its long startup and blocky screen. What was your first computer like?…

  • Patience

    It took several minutes to start, which taught me patience before I knew the word for it.

  • Family room

    My first computer sat in the corner of the family room and felt like a shared experiment. Everyone hovered, unsure what it could do.