I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Soup

    My favorite thing to cook is soup because it forgives mistakes and welcomes change.

  • Quiet

    The computer felt like a public library desk. Quiet rules applied.

  • Awareness

    My first computer use involved listening for footsteps. Awareness shaped behavior.

  • Presence

    The screen reflected more than light. It reflected presence.

  • Mutual

    I learned to log out because others depended on it. Responsibility felt mutual.

  • Blur

    The computer held family email and shared files. Lines blurred.

  • Informal

    The chair at the computer belonged to whoever arrived first. Fairness felt informal.

  • Neutral

    The computer felt like neutral ground. No one fully owned it.

  • Weight

    The keyboard felt watched. Each keystroke carried weight.

  • Restraint

    The screen felt public even when the task felt personal. I learned restraint early.