I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Grow

    I remember that every scroll is a choice. Every minute spent online is one I could be using to grow.

  • Creativity

    I turn boredom into opportunity. When I resist reaching for my phone, I rediscover creativity I forgot I had.

  • Schedule

    I schedule offline hours like appointments—with myself. That time is important.

  • Memories

    I put my phone away when I’m with people. The best memories are made eye to eye, not behind glass.

  • Support

    I use my devices as tools, not crutches. They support my goals instead of stealing my attention.

  • Presence

    I limit screens because I’m chasing presence, not perfection.

  • Clear

    I trade screen time for self time. Meditation, journaling, or a simple walk outside clears the fog that technology creates.

  • Silence

    I silence distractions so I can hear myself think again. My best ideas don’t come from notifications—they come from silence.

  • Real Life

    I remind myself that real connection happens face-to-face, not screen-to-screen. Every conversation in person feels more meaningful.

  • Live

    I measure success not by how much I post, but by the depth to which I live.