I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Fleeting

    I check my screen time report each week. Seeing the numbers reminds me that time is fleeting—and mine to reclaim.

  • Self-control

    I practice self-control not out of punishment, but out of care for my own well-being.

  • Realization

    I give myself permission to disconnect. The world won’t fall apart if I don’t check my phone.

  • Laughter > Notifications

    I trade digital noise for real conversations. The sound of a friend’s laughter means more than any notification.

  • Respect

    I turn off my phone when I’m outside. Nature deserves my full attention, not a fraction of it.

  • Reset

    I take intentional breaks to reset. Stepping away helps me see clearly again.

  • Valuable

    I set time limits because I respect my focus. My attention is too valuable to waste on endless distractions.

  • Calm

    I manage my screen time by reminding myself that peace feels better than stimulation. I choose calm over chaos.

  • Alive

    I remind myself that my worth isn’t measured in likes or views, but in how present, purposeful, and alive I feel when I’m fully here.

  • Energy Distribution

    I manage my screen time by focusing on what fulfills me. Growth happens when I invest energy into what truly matters.