I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Failure Is Progress

    Some days, I fail. I get caught in loops of reels and headlines. But I don’t shame myself anymore—I just start again.. In a way, failure is a form of…

  • Love

    I manage my screen time by reminding myself that attention is a form of love. I want to give mine to things that matter.

  • Thoughts

    I started carrying a notebook instead of my phone. Now, when I feel the urge to scroll, I write. My thoughts are worth recording.

  • Water

    I used to wake up and scroll before getting out of bed. About a week ago, I started waking up and drinking a cup of water. I feel healthier that…

  • What Do I Need?

    I manage my screen time by asking what I need, not what the algorithm wants to show me. That question changed everything.

  • Drawer

    I started putting my phone in a drawer after 9 p.m. It felt strange at first, like something was missing. But what was missing was the regular influx of dopamine…

  • Content

    One morning, I left my phone inside while I drank coffee on the porch. Ten minutes turned into thirty. I didn’t miss the screen at all.

  • Sit With

    I used to scroll to escape my thoughts. In therapy in 2019, I learned to sit with them. It’s uncomfortable sometimes, but it’s also freeing.

  • Counts

    I didn’t realize how much of my day disappeared into my phone until I started timing it. Now, I treat my attention like currency. I spend it where it counts.

  • Intention

    I end each day proud of the moments I lived, not the hours I spent online. Balance begins with awareness, and awareness starts with intention.