I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Appreciation

    I skipped gratitude for my body. Now, I focus on what it carried me through. That shift changed everything.

  • Inhale

    I used to skip inhaling when I smoked weed. But one slow inhale can change everything.

  • Feedback

    I skipped writing goals because I feared failing. Then I learned: failure is feedback, not a verdict.

  • Locks

    I used to skip brushing my hair in a rush. But now, that slow, simple rhythm feels like meditation.

  • Respect

    I skipped grocery lists and always forgot something. Now I see that planning is an act of respect for the version of me who has to deal with it later.

  • Mail

    I used to skip opening mail. It would pile up. When I finally opened it all, it felt great.

  • Breathe

    I skipped the pause between tasks. I filled every silence. But life isn’t meant to be crammed — it’s meant to breathe.

  • Protective

    I used to skip stretching before a run — I was always in a rush to start. Then I pulled a muscle and learned: the slowest part of your routine…

  • Books

    I skipped reading books. I thought I didn’t have time. But every page reminded me I have time for anything that feeds my mind.

  • Health

    I used to skip gratitude at night. I’d fall asleep to worry. Now I fall asleep with good mental health.