Accepting that I needed help was hard, because independence felt like my identity.
I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.
Things We Forget
By Gentle Witch
Graduated college with a double major
Former federal government employee
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Turning down a high-paying job felt difficult, because money didn’t align with my values.
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Taking a break from social media was tough, because I relied on it for connection.
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Letting myself rest after burnout felt like the hardest choice, because I equated rest with failure.
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Saying “No”
Saying no to a family expectation challenged me, because the guilt shaped so much of my life.
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2012
Choosing to go back to school felt heavy, because I had to face all my classmates when I could barely walk.
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The hardest decision I ever had to make was walking away from a relationship I cared about. It hurt, because love didn’t fix the deeper issues.
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2020
Moving to a new city challenged me most, because I feared starting over alone.
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Post 7 week long coma
The hardest decision I ever had to make was the decision to fight back and recover from my brain injury instead of accepting reality as it was and losing all…
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Every year, my sibling makes apple crisp with oats and brown sugar. It is always very tasty.