I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Accepting that I needed help was hard, because independence felt like my identity.

  • Turning down a high-paying job felt difficult, because money didn’t align with my values.

  • Taking a break from social media was tough, because I relied on it for connection.

  • Letting myself rest after burnout felt like the hardest choice, because I equated rest with failure.

  • Saying “No”

    Saying no to a family expectation challenged me, because the guilt shaped so much of my life.

  • 2012

    Choosing to go back to school felt heavy, because I had to face all my classmates when I could barely walk.

  • The hardest decision I ever had to make was walking away from a relationship I cared about. It hurt, because love didn’t fix the deeper issues.

  • 2020

    Moving to a new city challenged me most, because I feared starting over alone.

  • Post 7 week long coma

    The hardest decision I ever had to make was the decision to fight back and recover from my brain injury instead of accepting reality as it was and losing all…

  • Every year, my sibling makes apple crisp with oats and brown sugar. It is always very tasty.