I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Watching

    I know character appears when no one is watching.

  • Service Workers

    I observe how people treat service workers.

  • Behavior

    I trust behavior more than promises.

  • How

    I learn a lot from how someone apologizes.

  • Boundaries

    I notice how people respond to boundaries.

  • Kindness

    I watch how people’s kindness shows itself in small moments.

  • Actions

    I judge character by actions under stress.

  • Humility

    I look for humility rather than confidence.

  • Speak

    I notice how people speak about past relationships.

  • Accountability

    I listen for accountability in stories.