I graduated college after a severe traumatic brain injury.

Things We Forget

By Gentle Witch

Graduated college with a double major

Former federal government employee

  • Time Tells

    I think I am better with time than first impressions.

  • Sometimes

    I sense danger and ask follow up questions, but I wouldn’t say I am a “good” judge of character.

  • Nah

    Given my history, I would say no. I have famously befriended people who have treated me badly. This has changed in recent times, and I will try to keep growing…

  • Behavior

    I notice when words match behavior.

  • Yes

    I believe integrity matters more than likability.

  • Respect

    I trust respect shown during conflict.

  • Patience

    I notice patience during inconvenience.

  • Animals

    I watch how people treat animals.

  • Calm > Drama

    I trust calm responses over dramatic ones.

  • Pay Attention

    I pay attention to how people speak about themselves.