Many studies have provided empirical evidence that social support is essential in maintaining psychological and physical health. One time in 2011, my friend’s unwavering commitment played a crucial role in the process to heal from a (severe, traumatic) injury. This demonstrated the true impact a best friend can have. My gratitude to one friend is so significant that it is still to this day not repaid. Not only would I not be myself today without her, but I would also be living with my parents in an electric wheelchair being spoon-fed my meals. Claire’s support was essential to my recovery.
In 2011, I would not have recovered from my injury so well without the incredible support I received from family and friends. One friend, let’s call her Claire, drove herself an hour every day for 120 days to visit me in the hospital. I can say with absolute certainty that I would not have made such an excellent recovery without her support. She maintained this support even when I could not remember anything from one day to the next, when all I wanted to do was sit there and watch Shrek.
Many novels could be written about the excellent, persistent support I received from Claire even after I returned to high school. She left every single class early to walk me to my next one, and she dealt with my selfish, unstable personality for years. She ate lunch with me every day in our favorite teacher’s classroom, and even spent time outside of school with me when I was relearning all of my social skills.
Claire’s support was essential to my recovery. It was more than just an act of friendship—it was a literal lifeline that shaped my future. Her kindness, patience, and persistence carried me through some of the darkest moments of my life. This proves social support is not just convenient, but a necessity in overcoming adversity. While I may never be able to fully repay her, I will always be grateful for her unwavering support. Claire’s support serves as proof of the power of true friendship.
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