Desire to snub my nose at the patriarchy

I almost want to become fat just to snub my nose at the patriarchy, but I know it’s not healthy to be overweight. I want to live my best possible life for as long as I can, and so becoming fat would only deter me from my goals.

I can cut my hair short instead.

Now, that’s a good simple “solution” to men making unwanted advances.

I wonder if my partner would be comfortable doing it.

These are things to ponder.