When my boyfriend asked me how often I felt like I needed to cum, I responded with facts only. I said, “Well, nobody really NEEDS to cum. It’s not a human necessity.”

I thought about this. Then, I said, “As often as possible.”

Is it taboo to discuss this topic? I don’t think it should be. Heterosexual women deserve the same attention in the bedroom as their heterosexual male partners, but some heterosexual men do not prioritize women’s pleasure. This is largely because the existence of the subconscious internalized misogyny many heterosexual men feel towards women, and that many women themselves themselves often possess. I did, anyway. One step we can all take to move towards dismantling our own subconscious internalized misogyny is to start prioritizing about women’s pleasure. On the path towards equality, we all need to create more experience with female ejaculate.

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